A look inside

What does my partner say or do in relation to money that I don’t like?

What have I said or done to stop or change my partner’s behaviours around money?

Did my actions change my partner’s behavior in the long term?

Did my actions enhance and enrich our relationship in the long term? If not, what has this cost me/us?

Identifying Controlling Actions When we hold different beliefs and values about money to our partner, it is easy to fall in to the habits of trying to change or “fix” how our partner relates to and behaves with money. This

and then assess how effective it was in the short term and what it cost you in the long term.